To begin with, people give a dam too much about the silly petty crap and do not give enough thought to the magical and amazing crap that happens around us. Everyone has suffered from this to some extent or another and it generally occurs when a shitstorm of category five takes lives for a spin and then people generally lose sight of what it is that really matters.
It is the magical stuff that matters the most even though it might be risky or it could be dangerous. Life is said to be too short to throw it away on the stupid things in life, regardless of how safe or how comfortable the stupid things might be. However, what is magical and not differs from person to person. Each and every one of us had a psychophysiological reaction to certainly given stimuli, however small it may be. There is a famous quote relating to this, and that is beauty is in the eye of the beholder. The best place to begin learning about the magical stuff is by starting with yourself.
Focus Only On Your Own Crap
Focusing only on yourself is the best way for you to survive. On your journey to becoming Unfuckwithable, this is where you should begin. Being healthy is the best way for you to be able to distinguish the stupid shit from the magical and being able to make a distinction between the two is essential.In today’s world, people are generally taught to give thought to the petty stuff that happens. Focusing on your own crap before caring about that of others is essential and once this has been mastered and put in order, only then can we move on to helping others with their own crap.
Do Not Accept Stuff That You Hate
The healthier that a person becomes the more than person realizes what they hate and what is actually unhealthy. The stupid stuff is usually unhealthy, while the amazing and magical is healthy and it is really that simple. Moderation should be something that is considered as this is said to be the cornerstone of health. However, generally, the magical and amazing crap is almost always healthy, barring something too extreme.Focus on your own crap and be healthy and stay clear of that which is unhealthy, embrace what you love as opposed to accepting what you hate.
Put It In The Fuck It Bucket And Then Move On
There will be times when you will have to shrug your shoulders and just laugh at the past while staring into the future and get on with living or dying. The petty crap is building up around you so just throw it in the bucket and then move on. This applies to everything in life that does not really matter. So throw it away in the bucket and move on and learn from it while owning up to the personal responsibilities regarding it. Embrace the fact that ignorance and co-dependency have brought you to the shitpile that was your wasted life but then throw it in the bucket and move on.Take In Strength And Release All The Bullshit
When you have focused on your own stuff enough so that you have made sense of it you will have worked out what you hate and be able to move on from all the pettiness. Now is the time to focus on breathing and listen to what your heart is telling you.Take in strength and release all the bullshit, breathe the ill health out and good in, take in empathy and release apathy, breathe in the love and out the hate, take in the magic and leave out all the petty crap. Keep on meditating and listening to what your heart is telling you and then say fuck it and laugh out loud.
It’s Bullshit And Knowing It Will Set You Free
There is a difference between one who knows the path and those who only walk along the path and the difference is having a good sense of humor. This is why the person who is able to understand the bullshit will be likely to be enlightened more than those who think that the bullshit is the real deal.It all comes down to attitude and disposition. Asking better questions and not looking for better answers. Have an open mind, be flexible and have a disposition that is humorous when it comes to your answers. Embrace the words of Aristotle “It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it.”
Embrace Kidmaste and Fuck Namaste
Think about this, you do not get thrown into the fire because you are the fire. This is something that not many people understand. Embrace Kidmaste, everyone is just a kid from somewhere among the grand scheme of things as people live short lives and are never far removed from the little kid that they used to be. Adults are kids who have forgotten not to take themselves seriously. If you get in touch with your inner child then you can be more flexible robust and be able to deal with life. In the words of Dr. Seuss, adults are only obsolete children.Become Truly Unfuckwithable
In the urban dictionary, the word “Unfuckwithable” means being at peace and being in touch with yourself and there is nothing that anyone can say or do that bothers you, while no negativity is able to touch you.The secret to unfuckwithabilty is to give genuine thought to a cause that is worthy as this is where the magic resides. It is something that cannot be pointed out and only sought after, and can only be felt. Remember that no one but you alone is able to find the magic that is unique to you.
Once you are in the sweet spot between things you love to do and when you have become fully present in a sacred space, then you are invincible in a vulnerable way that can be found through mindfulness meditation. This can be found in humor that is sincere and laughter that is authentic. It can be found when you say fuck it; life is far too short to allow the petty things to bring you down.
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